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Hi I messaged an ex partner a few weeks back just informal Hi how are you but got ignored. I am married now however I have struggled for 14 years to deal this breakup. I spent 5 years dating after it and also I struggled to find somebody I felt the same about. She walked out on me after just 9 months however my current relationship has been 8 years. I have done much better things with my life like hold a job for a decade, buy a house, get married ect but I did fail when I quit college and also failed my driving test. However it was the influence my ex had on my life which enabled me to do what I done. She found someone within months of meeting me had a family got married and a few years ago got divorced but unsure if she found anybody else.
I wouldn’t expect to just go back with someone after all that time however I read many years ago some people first loves you never get over ect. However that’s not the case as my first love I forgot about her and later seen her as a mistake.
Being single 5 years was one of the darkest miserable times of my life. I was glad to move on. Obviously I haven’t mentioned my current partner much she is less of an influence on me I am more an influence on her I believe. I have met other people like friends who have been female who have been very influencing.
Just wondering if anybody has had similar experiences to me? Or can offer any advice as I know sending the message wasn't really right. I should note I wasn’t messaging her to get back with her but I guess I still have lots of unanswered questions.
I wouldn’t expect to just go back with someone after all that time however I read many years ago some people first loves you never get over ect. However that’s not the case as my first love I forgot about her and later seen her as a mistake.
Being single 5 years was one of the darkest miserable times of my life. I was glad to move on. Obviously I haven’t mentioned my current partner much she is less of an influence on me I am more an influence on her I believe. I have met other people like friends who have been female who have been very influencing.
Just wondering if anybody has had similar experiences to me? Or can offer any advice as I know sending the message wasn't really right. I should note I wasn’t messaging her to get back with her but I guess I still have lots of unanswered questions.