Tempest
Distinguished Member
I have seen this before.
If you are a guy that looks great, works out, has enough money to be generous, and is a really fun and sociable guy, you can and will get away with a hell of a lot.
What's the saying about girls/woman and bad guys....
And this is the annoying part, despite such a persons 'flaws' being overlooked as in every other dept he's a great guy.
If you 'a normal guy' go out of your way to bring his flaws to the surface and explain to others he's not such a great guy. YOU will be the one to attract the negativity.
I've experienced this personally myself, a old girlfriends brother. REALLY into the wrong groups, Booze, Drugs, Can get you a gun if you want one. And I'm not joking there.
Am amazing chap everyone loved. His dark side was just part of his whole package.
And indeed you meet him at a party, he's buy your drinks, laughing and joking, everyone loved him, extremely sociable.
But you focus on his bad side and you were the one who would be looked upon like some lepur.
I suppose it's because most people look at the whole person and if they see 90% amazing, the 10% that's not get's put to one side.
If you are a guy that looks great, works out, has enough money to be generous, and is a really fun and sociable guy, you can and will get away with a hell of a lot.
What's the saying about girls/woman and bad guys....
And this is the annoying part, despite such a persons 'flaws' being overlooked as in every other dept he's a great guy.
If you 'a normal guy' go out of your way to bring his flaws to the surface and explain to others he's not such a great guy. YOU will be the one to attract the negativity.
I've experienced this personally myself, a old girlfriends brother. REALLY into the wrong groups, Booze, Drugs, Can get you a gun if you want one. And I'm not joking there.
Am amazing chap everyone loved. His dark side was just part of his whole package.
And indeed you meet him at a party, he's buy your drinks, laughing and joking, everyone loved him, extremely sociable.
But you focus on his bad side and you were the one who would be looked upon like some lepur.
I suppose it's because most people look at the whole person and if they see 90% amazing, the 10% that's not get's put to one side.